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Sexy Bitch - An Oxymoron?
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Sexy Bitch - An Oxymoron? Is bitchy sexy? All too often I see women proclaiming that they are bitches. It seems to get men's attention. Do men find an "attitude" appealing? I always prided myself on being friendly and tolerant with very few, if any, bitchy tendancies. Maybe I've been going about it all wrong. Would negativity and intolerance make me more desirable?  |
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This man does not find bitchy to be at all sexy. A bit of an attitude, if it demonstrates native skepticism, is intriguing. But bitchy just because she has something she thinks you want and will suffer anything to get- nope. I can do without anything she thinks she has. I'd rather masturbate. Another thing I can do without is the woman who believes I'm intimidated by her intelligence. I have my own. Why should I be intimidated by hers? To state that she is intimidatingly intelligent reveals that just maybe she ain't. I don't care for drama, and bitches thrive on it. I know males who have this character trait as well, and I refer to them as "bitches" as well. I am sure that many men will disagree with me. I have had very close friends who saw a conquest in the making when encountering "bitchy" women. I just want to hit 'em with a bat. Both of them. The only bitch I want to get close to is canine. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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To me, it depends on what the guy is looking for. If he's looking for only a sexual relationship, and perhaps a little switching of power, I can see being with a bitchy woman interesting. But for a regular relationship? No, no, and no. I don't want anybody who is open about being mean and difficult. I have a high school classmate, a year older, and she is all empowered with the "bitchy" thing. I am her good friend, but I would NEVER date her due to knowing how difficult she is. I also find it interesting how people are trying to use the "bitch" label as empowering. As crim67 says, there is a big difference in a strong, powerful woman, and a woman who is just mean and difficult. I like strong, powerful women who know what they want. I don't like women who think being mean and difficult is empowering.
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Sometime confidence is labeled bitchy by the not so confident... Confidence is very sexxy  Being contrary just to be contrary can just be annoying.
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Sexy to me is a certain attitude which shows confidence in who you are. If a woman is confident and calls her self a bitch, so be it. BTW, in my mind, don't you dare change. You are a wonderful person. 
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[image] Bitch and bitchy are two different things IMO. I'm a bitch through and through, but I am rarely bitchy, which I think is more about being malicious or unpleasant. Sexy bitch?? ABSOLUTELY!!! {=}
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8/5/2014 4:56 pm |
To some people being "bitchy" really is sexy. Some people find the lack of "bitchiness" boring or uninteresting, but the attraction to "bitchery" is usually hilariously short lived. If you have few to no "bitchy" tendencies don't start developing any. Or.....if you're crafty make a "bitchy" first impression and then hit them with a spin move positivity and delightfulness. They'll love it. 
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There is a big difference between strong confident women and bitchy. I love a strong independent woman who is not afraid to express herself. However bitchy is usually a front for deep seated insecurities. Give me a woman who is an intellectual equal or better who is sure of who she is and what she wants and I'm happy. crim67 just a bawhair off being a genius!!
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No, it isn't, and that's why there are so few sexy women on TSdates.com; even in the blogs!!
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