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FINGERING THE BBC WAY!  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
8/19/2013 2:46 am
FINGERING THE BBC WAY!



In the spirit of public service broadcasting, the BBC has issued the following advice on fingering:

What is it? This is a sexual technique where someone touches another's genitals or anus using their fingers. One or more fingers may be pushed inside the girl's vagina, simulating sex. It is also known as mutual masturbation.
Why bother? Done correctly, it may feel good. Doing it correctly means both people want to. And taking the time to check it feels nice. Over enthusiastic rubbing and prodding is never a good move. Plus you can't get pregnant from a finger. Or lose your virginity (though a girl's hymen may break)
So what's the catch? There are four:
• It's still illegal before we're 16. And forcing fingers into someone can be considered r ape, however old we are.
• Dirty, long fingernails can scratch and chaff.
• STIs may spread if fingers go from one set of genitals straight to the next.
• One thing often leads to another ...


According to askmen, there are many fingering techniques, including the following seven methods:

The rubber. The clitoris is the place to stimulate for most women. When she's adequately self-lubricated, or you've put some water-based lube on your fingers, use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub her clitoris softly in a circular motion. Her reaction will let you know that you're on to something. Continue your pace and slowly begin to increase speed. At no point, however, should you go so fast that you end up losing focus. If she yells out something like "Don't stop!" then don't stop. Some women, however, like it when you take a break from the clitoris and proceed to insert those very same fingers inside the vagina at a rhythmic pace. Take cues from her reactions to see if she's one of these women.
The fastest finger. Does your woman prefer to have slow, exaggerated sex, or does she like to hop up and down on you like a bunny? If it's the latter, using your middle finger to go in and out of her at high speeds may be beneficial in the orgasm department. For this finger technique, you'd be best served to position yourself in front of her vagina (that is, spread her legs open and kneel in between them). That way, you can keep your hand straight and ensure that your finger(s) is (are) going in at full capacity. It also lessens the chances of missing your target.
The helping hand. If you can manage to use both hands at different tempos, she'll keep getting wetter. While using the tips of your fingers on one hand to rub her clitoris in a circular motion, use the index and middle fingers of the other hand to glide in and out of her vagina. The multiple sensations will serve to increase her chances of reaching orgasm. It's not a race, however; you don't have to go as fast as humanly possible. Just keep a steady rhythm. If she wants it faster, she'll let you know.
The screw. In the spirit of the "fastest finger" technique, you'll need to use your index and middle fingers for this one. Again, sit between her legs and start off with the palm of your hand facing down. Insert your fingers all the way in, then turn your hand so that your palm is facing up and comes out. Repeat it as often as necessary until she reaches orgasm. Tip: When you turn your hand so that your palm faces up, tap her clitoris with your thumb each time.
The G-spot indicator. Sitting in front of her with your palm facing up, insert your finger(s) inside her and make a "come hither" motion. Your objective is to try to tap her belly button from the inside, in effect, hitting her G-spot. Don't get aggressive right away, however. Start off slowly and, judging by her reaction, keep the same pace or increase speed.
The shocker. If you and your woman enjoy experimenting and you've explored the back end before, this one may be quite enjoyable for her. While you're using your index and middle fingers in her vagina, stick your pinkie finger in her anus (your hand must be sideways -- that is, your palm would be facing her thigh). While you go in and out, both holes will be stimulated simultaneously. Keep in mind that after you place a finger into her anus, you cannot place that same finger into her vagina -- it may lead to an infection.
The slider. This finger technique needs good lubrication. With your index and middle fingers, start off by placing the tips of your fingers on either side of her clitoris, then glide down and make your way inside her vagina. Get back to where you started and keep repeating this maneuver.


Do you like fingering and/or being fingered?
What is your favourite fingering technique?
Can you orgasm by being fingered, whether anal or vaginal?


foreverfree123 60M
435 posts
8/19/2013 3:08 am

OMG !!!!!
That photo is HOT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Do you like fingering and/or being fingered?
Hell yessssssssss !!!!
I love being fingered vaginally by a partner, and I love using my own fingers inside a partner anally.

What is your favourite fingering technique?
Vaginal stimulation, rather than clitoral for me.
My favourite technique??? Never mind just a couple of fingers, I love being fisted vaginally ........ that is still fingering, isn't it? It just uses more fingers, and a hand, and a wrist, and half a forearm. lol

Can you orgasm by being fingered, whether anal or vaginal?
Oh yessssssssssssss. G-spot stimulation for me means a waterproof mattress protector, and a whole new set of bed linen at the ready. lol


CastleGateKeeper 50M
263 posts
8/19/2013 5:50 am

Unfortunately, since moving to Salford and in light of being forced to freeze the current licence fee; the BBC wishes to announce that: any "heading south" has been curtailed and cut backs mean only the little finger can be used. On the upside, there are numerous scheduled repeats planned.

I have a pornographic memory


CastleGateKeeper 50M
263 posts
8/19/2013 5:56 am

In a more relevant, less tongue in cheek response. I do think that the art of fingering is sometimes lost. It tends to be associated with fumbling early sexual relationships and is often overlooked as a precursor to penetration. I've had many a pleasurable session, where only the fingers were used.

I have a pornographic memory


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/21/2013 8:30 am

    Quoting foreverfree123:
    OMG !!!!!
    That photo is HOT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Do you like fingering and/or being fingered?
    Hell yessssssssss !!!!
    I love being fingered vaginally by a partner, and I love using my own fingers inside a partner anally.

    What is your favourite fingering technique?
    Vaginal stimulation, rather than clitoral for me.
    My favourite technique??? Never mind just a couple of fingers, I love being fisted vaginally ........ that is still fingering, isn't it? It just uses more fingers, and a hand, and a wrist, and half a forearm. lol

    Can you orgasm by being fingered, whether anal or vaginal?
    Oh yessssssssssssss. G-spot stimulation for me means a waterproof mattress protector, and a whole new set of bed linen at the ready. lol
The photo is very hot. It's a photo taken by Bob Carlos Clarke.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/21/2013 8:43 am

    Quoting CastleGateKeeper:
    Unfortunately, since moving to Salford and in light of being forced to freeze the current licence fee; the BBC wishes to announce that: any "heading south" has been curtailed and cut backs mean only the little finger can be used. On the upside, there are numerous scheduled repeats planned.
Thanks for your comment.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/21/2013 9:34 am

    Quoting CastleGateKeeper:
    In a more relevant, less tongue in cheek response. I do think that the art of fingering is sometimes lost. It tends to be associated with fumbling early sexual relationships and is often overlooked as a precursor to penetration. I've had many a pleasurable session, where only the fingers were used.
I agree with you; the art of fingering is getting forgotten. I've rarely been complimented on my fingfering skills: I'm signing up for a BBC course right now!


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