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FWB = NSA FB This post intially got banned! TSdates.com announced: "Your post has been denied due to the following reason: Banned Topics (hate/weapons/under age)."  Recent research, funded by the UK’s Department for Education, has found that about a third of all young people have had a friend with benefits, a no-strings-attached fuck buddy. But less than a half are satisfied with friendship with benefits - most did it in the hope that the friendship would lead to a more serious relationship and many became jealous of their friend's other friends with benefits. However, more women than men are happier with friendship with benefits. Glamour magazine, the repository of relationship wisdom, offers ten tips for friendship with benefits: Rule 1: DO think twice about hooking up with your neighbor. Rule 2: DON’T convince yourself the relationship is more serious than it is. Rule 3: DO proceed with caution if you meet someone new. Rule 4: DON’T encourage friends and family to hang out with your FWB. Rule 5: You DON’T have to sleep over. Rule 6: DON’T get mad if your FWB goes out with someone else. Rule 7: DO keep your relationship in the bedroom. Rule 8: DO protect yourself. Rule 9: DO be smart about social media. Rule 10: DON’T think sex is required. Rule 10 is just plain crazy! I have had several friendships with benefits and, largely, they have worked (at least for a period of time). Some of my friendships with benefits became friendships without benefits; some became relationships; and some just fizzled out. Generally, I found less drama in a friendship with benefits than a relationship, even though I’ll probably die alone! Do you have, or have you had, friends with benefits? Are you looking for friendship with benefits? What tips and rules do you have, or would you have, for such friendships? |
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I have several FWBs,, we meet for adult fun, chat and on occasion social events. None have any intention of a stereo typical "serious relationship" and none are "exclusive" arrangements. It is important to make this clear up front, be honest and make sure you are in agreement. 3 such FWBs have "lasted" over 10 years and are still going well. The frequency of visits varies, some only once or twice a year. I think it is all in the communication of each others wants
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I don't have any FWB and not necessarily looking for one!
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1. Nope, tried it, I don't believe there is such a thing a 'no-strings', not for me anyways, every action has a consequence in my view. 2. Nope. 3. Be prepared, we're all human.
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is it just me... but #10 doesn't make sense bc without the sex it's just a friendship.. the benefit part is the sex. Or have I missed the definition of FWB .."...and then God created the orgasm, so women can moan even when they are happy"- Tantra 
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I have several FWBs,, we meet for adult fun, chat and on occasion social events. None have any intention of a stereo typical "serious relationship" and none are "exclusive" arrangements. It is important to make this clear up front, be honest and make sure you are in agreement. 3 such FWBs have "lasted" over 10 years and are still going well. The frequency of visits varies, some only once or twice a year. I think it is all in the communication of each others wants 
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I don't have any FWB and not necessarily looking for one!
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1. Nope, tried it, I don't believe there is such a thing a 'no-strings', not for me anyways, every action has a consequence in my view. 2. Nope. 3. Be prepared, we're all human.
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I do and have had friends with benefits "relationships" from this site... They never are and never should be completely NSA, there's always going to be some sort of strings. I am looking for a few more to round out the numbers but the friendship has to be an essential component otherwise it's just NSA hooking up which is cheap and sleazy. Always be as specific in the wording of your profile as you possibly can so the people who just want a quick fuck know not to contact you unless they are the sort of worthless scum to lie about what they are about... It also assists the genuine friends with benefits types to identify you as wanting the same.
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is it just me... but #10 doesn't make sense bc without the sex it's just a friendship.. the benefit part is the sex. Or have I missed the definition of FWB
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I think for #10, the real meaning is that a good fwb doesn't expect sex every time you are together as though that is the prime component of the association. The friendship should be prime and any sex should be the regular, but not every time, cherry on top. That's my take on #10 anyway and how I prefer it otherwise the friendship is dependent upon the sex which means it's "conditional friendship" (the put out or piss off friendship)... Ugh!
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