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TOO MUCH SEX  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
9/11/2015 8:30 am
TOO MUCH SEX





Recently there have been a few media headlines about having too much sex. At first, I thought how can someone have too much sex? Sex is supposed to be good for you, isn’t it?

Then, I thought someone may be having too much sex because it’s painful. But they’d stop having sex if it hurt, wouldn’t they?

Finally, I thought that, as a man needs to be aroused before having penetrative sex, a man can never have too much penetrative sex, can they? My mind then turned to women but it just got boggled, so I decided to investigate these media claims.

The media headlines stemmed from a study, conducted by researchers at the Carnegie Mellon University, on the links between sex and happiness. Their study, the first to examine the causal connection between sexual frequency and happiness, found that having more sex didn’t make couples happier.

64 married male-female couples, aged between 35 and 65 and who were having sex at least once a month but no more than three times a week, were selected to take part in the experiment.

The couples were randomly assigned to two groups. The first group was told to double the number of times they have sex each week. The second group, the control group, wasn’t told anything about how many times they should have sex.

The happiness of couples in both groups was monitored for over three months. Couples completed a daily questionnaire to measure their frequency of sex, enjoyment of sex, libido, personality, daily mood and feelings.

The Carnegie Mellon University researchers found that their happiness declined with increasing sex frequency. The researchers also found that the couples who fucked more reported lower sexual desire and reduced sexual enjoyment.

Despite what many self-help books tell you, it seems more sex doesn’t make you happier. It’s better sex that makes you happier. Or maybe it's being happier that makes you have better sex!


Have you ever had too much sex?
Have you ever had too little sex?
Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex?


For those who want to find out more on sex and happiness, please see Loewenstein G, Krishnamurti T, Kopsic J & McDonald D (2015), ‘Does Increased Sexual Frequency Enhance Happiness?’ Journal of Economic Behavior & Organization vol.116 pp.206-218.













Halal_Pork 49M

9/11/2015 8:37 am

Sex: Always too little, never too much.


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
9/11/2015 8:42 am

Have you ever had too much sex?
"NEVER"!!!!!!
Have you ever had too little sex?
"ALL THE TIME"!
Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex?
"YES---MORE"!!!!!!
Good thing I have great vision!!!


koocnachtiek 67M
380 posts
9/11/2015 8:51 am

My master could not answer these questions without looking up the definitions. It has been so long since he's been laid, he can't even remember it.

However, ask him something about sex with himself, and you will never hear the end of it. He gets lots practice when he is alone.

Why just last nigh...

OH! OH! Here he comes now, I gotta jet...

Is this just another trick by keithcancook
to get his text on television?


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
9/11/2015 8:57 am

Grrr! kooc! Git back in yer box, or I won't let you play with my other alter egos next leap year! And no new straw til Xmas!

Sorry, y'all. He got loose, and I'm having trouble catching him. If he shows up in any of y'alls blogs please detain him there until I can come collect him.

He's really quite harmless, although he embarasses me to no end!

blog on!


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/11/2015 9:05 am

Have you ever had too much sex? never
Have you ever had too little sex? always not enough
Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex? it has hugs V

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
9/11/2015 9:50 am

Have you ever had too much sex?
I don't think so....
There was a visit to the Free Clinic once though....long time ago....

Have you ever had too little sex?
This one I'm sure of.

Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex?
Not necessarily true either way. Boring comfortable married sex can be pretty good, but then we all know how exciting it is to be with someone new.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
9/11/2015 9:50 am

These annoying twits and their alledged studies. Do they ever provide their own statistics? Are they sexually active? Frequency? Experience with sex? What makes them subject matter experts?

Have you ever had too much sex? Nooooooooooooooo

Have you ever had too little sex? YES!!!! Overseas deployments are very sparse

Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex? It stays equally delightful to me


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NaughtyInSO 113F
9755 posts
9/11/2015 9:51 am

Have you ever had too much sex? It's never too much.

Have you ever had too little sex? Unfortunately, yes.

Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex? Frequency has little to do with quality.

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sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
9/11/2015 1:38 pm

I don't think I ever had too much sex....At present it is definitely too little....like nada, zero, zilch!!!

Really good sex cannot be measured by how much you have of it....it depends on the partner.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


canyaz 56F
17128 posts
9/15/2015 11:58 am

Have you ever had too much sex? I have over done it on occasion. I have had to give the lady bits a rest.
Have you ever had too little sex? Currently in this category. Once a month is a virtual dry spell for me.
Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex? Yes.

There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 12:10 am

    Quoting Halal_Pork:
    Sex: Always too little, never too much.
For me, it's always too little sex when not in a relationship; and often too much sex when in a relatonship!
Thanks for stopping by.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 12:11 am

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    Have you ever had too much sex?
    "NEVER"!!!!!!
    Have you ever had too little sex?
    "ALL THE TIME"!
    Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex?
    "YES---MORE"!!!!!!
    Good thing I have great vision!!!
One YES and no NOs, though there was one NEVER!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 12:13 am

    Quoting  :

I think the experiment was a little flawed as they introduced pressure to have more sex which is never a good thing for enjoying sex. Having said that, I can't see how else they could have conducted the experiment.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 12:15 am

    Quoting  :

I'm always trying to exhaust my sex supplies before someone takes it all away from me!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 12:16 am

    Quoting koocnachtiek:
    My master could not answer these questions without looking up the definitions. It has been so long since he's been laid, he can't even remember it.

    However, ask him something about sex with himself, and you will never hear the end of it. He gets lots practice when he is alone.

    Why just last nigh...

    OH! OH! Here he comes now, I gotta jet...
Solo sex is often the best sex. At least one knows what to do!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 12:17 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Have you ever had too much sex? never
    Have you ever had too little sex? always not enough
    Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex? it has hugs V
I think I enjoy sex the more I have sex - practice makes perfect!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 9:46 am

    Quoting keithcancook:
    Grrr! kooc! Git back in yer box, or I won't let you play with my other alter egos next leap year! And no new straw til Xmas!

    Sorry, y'all. He got loose, and I'm having trouble catching him. If he shows up in any of y'alls blogs please detain him there until I can come collect him.

    He's really quite harmless, although he embarasses me to no end!

    blog on!

It's okay, no offence taken by your alter ego!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 9:47 am

    Quoting  :

If I have bad sex, I need good sex as soon as possible to erase the memory!
Thanks for stopping by.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 9:48 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Have you ever had too much sex?
    I don't think so....
    There was a visit to the Free Clinic once though....long time ago....

    Have you ever had too little sex?
    This one I'm sure of.

    Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex?
    Not necessarily true either way. Boring comfortable married sex can be pretty good, but then we all know how exciting it is to be with someone new.
I like comfortable sex too; it's far less effort than exciting sex!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 9:49 am

    Quoting pal334:
    These annoying twits and their alledged studies. Do they ever provide their own statistics? Are they sexually active? Frequency? Experience with sex? What makes them subject matter experts?

    Have you ever had too much sex? Nooooooooooooooo

    Have you ever had too little sex? YES!!!! Overseas deployments are very sparse

    Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex? It stays equally delightful to me
I think this study was flawed as telling couples to have more sex creates pressure and thus they are less likely to enjoy sex.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 9:51 am

    Quoting NaughtyInSO:
    Have you ever had too much sex? It's never too much.

    Have you ever had too little sex? Unfortunately, yes.

    Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex? Frequency has little to do with quality.
On a few occasions, I've had to plead for no more sex. My recovery time can be measured in hours rather than minutes!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 9:52 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I don't think I ever had too much sex....At present it is definitely too little....like nada, zero, zilch!!!

    Really good sex cannot be measured by how much you have of it....it depends on the partner.

Too much sex only happens when I'm still recovering from the last bout of sex!
The rugby world cup is great. Japan were fantastic especially at the end when they decided to go for a try to win rather than a safe penalty to draw.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 9:53 am

    Quoting  :

It's quite dangerous to allow sex to fuel one's happiness!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 9:55 am

    Quoting  :

Four times is good. I rarely make it twice, though on one occasion I did manage five times!
Hope your trip is turning out good.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 9:55 am

    Quoting joisygirl:
    I don't know how accurate the Carnegie Mellon study was, I mean anytime you are forced to do something, even something enjoyable would end up causing stress and would cause you to be pretty miserable.

    I have read that having too much sex can cause memory loss. I don't believe that is true, do you? Now what was it you wanted to know; I've forgotten the question.
I'm surprised you're remembering anything since joining this site!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 10:04 am

    Quoting  :

Masturbation is always a very useful and trusty friend!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 10:05 am

    Quoting Cplnexdoor:
    Have you ever had too much sex?

    There have certainly been times when I wondered if there was such a thing as too much sex, but then I have someone that wants more and I throw out the concept of "too much sex".

    It doesn't exist!

    Have you ever had too little sex?

    Absolutely. I have come to the conclusion that I have a seven day a week appetite. Anything less is a challenge.

    Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex?

    If you have sex consistently, there is going to be good sex, and mediocre sex...we can't always have the bar so high that we have to be a complete failure if the sex is not mind blowing. With the right partner all sex is good whether it is Monday night or Saturday night!

    G
You're right, too much (or too little) sex depebnds on one's partner. At the moment, it's too much; I need recovery time!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/20/2015 10:07 am

    Quoting canyaz:
    Have you ever had too much sex? I have over done it on occasion. I have had to give the lady bits a rest.
    Have you ever had too little sex? Currently in this category. Once a month is a virtual dry spell for me.
    Does sex get better for you the more or fewer times you have sex? Yes.
Once a month is a dry spell for me as well; once a week is still quite dry!


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