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Knowing people  

1bighammer1000 59M
951 posts
2/18/2020 3:34 am

Last Read:
2/25/2020 5:53 pm

Knowing people

I tend to know a lot of people from a lifetime of being a bull shitter. Living near a small community, (20 miles away) and with my culinary skills I use to go to the coffee shop for breakfast and find a tavern for supper when I was in the construction business. Now just farming there are weeks that I don't leave the place. I find the use of the word friends pretty loosely used. I know a lot of people and I do use the term friend but it is a really broad term.
Then there are people that a person knows on a deeper level. I have spent the majority of my life alone, working by myself and it never seemed that I was around one person very much unless it was in a relationship. There has been a few gals that we have played together. There seems to be a deeper level of friendship after that. People move on and start new relationships, many of the gals have gone on and married or have gotten into relationships but there is always that real friendship feeling. When you do meet out in public even with their husbands or significant other I get a feeling of a genuine effort when they ask how you are, how's life treating you ect.
Here lately most of my contact with old (friends) have been through the face place, some people make physical moves in life, some move a thousand miles and, and some move a hundred miles away. There is a gal I have known for 8-10 years that moved, we hold some of the same views on life, some of the same sense of humor and sending messages back and forth has been interesting and fun. I suppose it is a little easier to let your guard down while messaging, I mentioned something that I read on a blog here and ended up telling her how to find my blog. She sent a message later that day saying she had checked my blog out and it was neat. Ha ha then she said I have a nice hammer ha ha. Really it blows my mind how some people can make a person feel so comfortable, and other keep a person on guard. Luckily I have a few people in my life that I am comfortable with.


Anything worth doing is worth doing right


1bighammer1000 59M
4304 posts
2/18/2020 3:35 am

I added the picture just to keep everyone entertained, ha ha have a great day

Anything worth doing is worth doing right


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
2/18/2020 8:40 am

I have few friends but many acquaintances. I have formed friendships here that transitioned into the real world but not the reverse. I applaud that you have that comfort level with someone.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
2/25/2020 1:03 pm

Well Big, I am really so happy to have gotten "to know" you! We may be so far apart and only touch base through our Blogs, but ..... you're a great guy to know! Yep, a special friend! Sigh ..... yet even here in the virtual, and real life, friends come and go, and as you say there will always be those few who are true and lasting. Hey, and sometimes I'll also bump into somebody from ages ago and we recognize each other - always fun to catch up!

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1bighammer1000 59M
4304 posts
2/25/2020 5:53 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Well Big, I am really so happy to have gotten "to know" you! We may be so far apart and only touch base through our Blogs, but ..... you're a great guy to know! Yep, a special friend! Sigh ..... yet even here in the virtual, and real life, friends come and go, and as you say there will always be those few who are true and lasting. Hey, and sometimes I'll also bump into somebody from ages ago and we recognize each other - always fun to catch up!
Your right Becca, there are some people in life that make a great impression, or think so much alike it is completely crazy. When you see that person or read what is going through their mind, it just warms you up and puts a smile on your face.

Anything worth doing is worth doing right


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