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Yup..Another Man- On AFF....LOL
Yup..Another Man- On AFF....LOL Sooooooooooo...once again a guy contacts me with some lame ass email and apparently expects me to jump for joy and be grateful? Excited? Blown away with his way for words? Guys..in case you didn't know - this is NOT how you get most women to respond in a positive way, or even respond at all. I just happen to occasionally like to clap back if someone is this childish-especially at the age of thirty six...when he really should know better! Gimme a break!! I've named him the Man-. Obviously not his profile name, but since I didn't want to violate the TOU's and I didn't want to embarrass his immature behavior personally. I'm just nice that way.....lol I honestly don't feel like I have to take this kind of shit. I realize it happens and most times I just delete the email and that's that. BUT sometimes if ya just happen to catch me on one of those days....Ya get the sarcastic me....too bad!! The Man- Wanna give me a blow job? 7/10/2017 3:38 pm Me Uhhhhhh.....no thanks! 7/10/2017 3:45 pm The Man- Why not? I'll return the favor. 7/10/2017 3:47 pm Me Why not? I don't even know you...and you think I would just give you a blow job? 7/10/2017 3:49 pm The Man- This is a site where people look for sex, just sayn. Don't you like to get your pussy licked and fucked? Well i like to get licked and fucked too. 7/10/2017 3:51 pm Me Read my profile and see if you think I'd really consider your request... It may be a sex site...but that doesn't mean everyone is looking for mindless sex just for the sake of it! In answer to your question though...of course I do....but not just by anyone! So my advice to you would be to find someone that wants to take care of that for you....cause it won't be me...just sayin'.....lol 7/10/2017 3:55 pm The Man- You should join ourtime.com Thats a dating site for old folks. That’s more your speed. 7/10/2017 4:00 pm Me Ahhhhhhh....a typical response from a boy when he's shot down. Attack and insult the woman that he wanted to give him the blow job!! Good luck finding a woman young or old to pay any attention to you..with an opening email line like that!! You're clueless.....lol 7/10/2017 4:57 pm The Man- You're old 7/10/2017 5:23 pm Me Honey....I'm experienced.....lol Age is but a number! You are thirty six and acting like you're fifteen. YOU contacted ME and wanted to know if I wanted to give you a blow job...I gave you an answer you didn't want to hear and you continue with the BS because I said no!! Grow up....lol I'm done with you now......so how about you find a young girl that is on par with you mentally and hope she'll give you that blow job- this woman wouldn't give ya the time of day! I prefer mature men..... I've wasted enough time with you, but it has been fun. Btw...look for our little exchange in my blog....it's always good to show how NOT to interact with a woman to those others who may be like you. I'll keep your name out though, since it's against TOU's to include it. But I'd sooooooooo love to be able to keep it in...just so the ladies know to stay away from another little man- on this site!! 7/10/2017 5:38 pm The Man- You're old 7/10/2017 6:21 pm Me LMAO..... You said that already!.. The day I start giving a shit what you think about me fucktard....will be a really cold day in hell....lol Too bad you won't see our little exchange in blogland! I'm done toying with you now....and you will be blocked!! Thank you though for the laughs you've provided me today....LOL SEE YA!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL |
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Grow up...will ya Man-Child!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I hope you mean him...lol I'm a really nice woman...and usually really laid back about things, but when I get my dander up, as I said..I reserve the right to clap back. He deserved what he got (in my humble opinion....lol) Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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LOL... thanks for the share! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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7/10/2017 4:53 pm |
Obviously the reason he has to ask for a blow job like that is because he never gets a blow job because he always asks for a blow job like that. LOL Being respectful to a lady is something so many men miss. But I am glad there are a large group of jerks like him out there. I can't tell you how many people have told me how appreciative they were when I simply open the car door, because nobody else ever does. If you treat a lady right, you will have all the blow jobs you want....and the will all be much better too! Cum follow my blog and feel free to leave a comment. It's what makes the chat interesting!
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I agree.. but those are too much for him to grasp...like I said to him, he's clueless!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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thank you thank you,these idiots make US/us pee OUR/our pants laughing soooooo had....HE needed a good laugh today so again thank you..
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Exactly...I wasn't old then! But when I shot him down..THEN I'm old? He obviously has a fragile ego and couldn't take it, his problem! I agree..things don't always work out the way we may like, but the way we handle it seperates the adults from the children. Hopefully he learned a little today, but I doubt it....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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LOL....I thought so....but just checkin' Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Obviously the reason he has to ask for a blow job like that is because he never gets a blow job because he always asks for a blow job like that. LOL Being respectful to a lady is something so many men miss. But I am glad there are a large group of jerks like him out there. I can't tell you how many people have told me how appreciative they were when I simply open the car door, because nobody else ever does. If you treat a lady right, you will have all the blow jobs you want....and the will all be much better too! It's a shame that some men don't get it. I can honestly say that most men that may contact me are respectful and even complimentary etc. But every once in awhile you get one like him. He'll see how it goes with the next woman he approaches like that, maybe he'll learn..maybe he won't. IF he doesn't...he sure as hell won't be gettin' any blow jobs anytime soon...LOL Your way is the right way J....... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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thank you thank you,these idiots make US/us pee OUR/our pants laughing soooooo had....HE needed a good laugh today so again thank you.. I'm glad I could give some chuckles today...lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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you truly are a saint. I would not have been as nice or taken the time that you did. I am very much the smaller person. Thank you for being who you are. I can only be me....but thank you for appreciating that! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Yes...it's not just the younger ones that don't have a clue sometimes. It can cross all age ranges unfortunately!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Was his email signature, POTUS? Prof10001 Swing by my blog!
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7/10/2017 5:42 pm |
the guy sounds sad yet desperate welcome to my chats and spats
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I had that happen to me a few times. In chat, not mail. Nice until told nicely no. Always younger ones. I tell them I like men not boys. Also having a cock makes them a male, not a man. They think out age is desperate. It's them for thinking we are easy so will not turn them down. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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He's an ass. As Uncle Si says, "you just can't fix stupid."
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LMAO..... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Some believe an older mature woman would jump at the chance to give some "fucktard" (my favorite word) a blow job. I mean my wife is 60 and men (boys) 18 want to get with her. One said I am your man. Actually I thought I was but I digress. Most of these guys have no game at all. I am embarrassed for them. Anyway sorry you had to endure that but I think you enjoyed fucking with him. I did enjoy reading it.
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I feel like you missed an opportunity here - if he was going to return the favor that means he was going to give you a blowjob right ? It would have been interesting to see how he was going to pull that off on a lady . Many theories could have been tested . Putting clients first by putting employees first, immediately after prioritizing fiscal responsibilities and leveraging profitability towards exceeding by empowering our employees to put clients (and themselves) first, in a diverse and respectful environment of only those that come first, first.
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Give 'em hell, Tam! Embrace the suck
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I 'm not interested in anyone under 50 so when flirts or hot listings and even messages come from younger people I don't bother.I know most don't read profiles but that really doesn't matter since I wrote it I also follow it. Using more than all the road!
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7/10/2017 7:03 pm |
Well I'm fairly new here but I've run across the same thing already. For me if you're a standard member where you can't read profiles how can I take you serious, you know of me or about me. Worse and I'm sorry guys, I do love you. You're a gold male member and you haven't taken the time to read I'm not looking for single males!, at this time anyway. My head surely isn't so big where they're in a trance after seeing my body, I wish lol. You would be far better off reading my profile or whomever's and writing something that shows you did read my profile and understood it. I'd say the same thing would go to those who are an age not desired. Do yourself a favor and start out saying you're awear of the age situation but...
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the guy sounds sad yet desperate He needs to grow up....he wouldn't be desperate if he behaved in an adult manner and treated a woman better. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I had that happen to me a few times. In chat, not mail. Nice until told nicely no. Always younger ones. I tell them I like men not boys. Also having a cock makes them a male, not a man. They think out age is desperate. It's them for thinking we are easy so will not turn them down. What make a man think that is gonna work with a sane, self respecting woman...I have no idea. I'm certainly not desperate and I doubt you are or many women on here are. You are correct..just because he has a cock doesn't make a man a man. The way he treats others and behaves like an adult is more relevant. Some get it...some don't and sadly they never will! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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He's an ass. As Uncle Si says, "you just can't fix stupid." Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Some believe an older mature woman would jump at the chance to give some "fucktard" (my favorite word) a blow job. I mean my wife is 60 and men (boys) 18 want to get with her. One said I am your man. Actually I thought I was but I digress. Most of these guys have no game at all. I am embarrassed for them. Anyway sorry you had to endure that but I think you enjoyed fucking with him. I did enjoy reading it. There have been some that were very crude in their approach and then there have been some that have been pretty decent, nice and respectful. Sometimes the younger ones have behaved better than the older ones. Thanks for the sympathy....but you are correct- I did enjoy "fucking" with him...only not in the way he was hoping....lol Glad you enjoyed it.....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I feel like you missed an opportunity here - if he was going to return the favor that means he was going to give you a blowjob right ? It would have been interesting to see how he was going to pull that off on a lady . Many theories could have been tested . But either way...I did rather enjoy my exchange with him....and honestly felt I got the best of him....That's probably wrong of me...but hopefully he learned a little lesson....lol Most likely not.... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Give 'em hell, Tam! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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seriously, what's with all the entitlement mindset these "kids" are on now a day??? No one is entitled for shit from anyone else let alone someone that you don't even know. You're right in burning the little boy imo. You are actually being kind to him there are so many other things I would have thrown at his way if I was you.
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I 'm not interested in anyone under 50 so when flirts or hot listings and even messages come from younger people I don't bother.I know most don't read profiles but that really doesn't matter since I wrote it I also follow it. If I receive a nice,respectful email then I may take the time to just say that I'm not looking for younger and let it go at that. I guess it just depends on my mood some days.....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Well I'm fairly new here but I've run across the same thing already. For me if you're a standard member where you can't read profiles how can I take you serious, you know of me or about me. Worse and I'm sorry guys, I do love you. You're a gold male member and you haven't taken the time to read I'm not looking for single males!, at this time anyway. My head surely isn't so big where they're in a trance after seeing my body, I wish lol. You would be far better off reading my profile or whomever's and writing something that shows you did read my profile and understood it. I'd say the same thing would go to those who are an age not desired. Do yourself a favor and start out saying you're awear of the age situation but... You're right that standard members can't read a full profile, but they can read about a paragraph,if they hover over a profile with their mouse while using a laptop (but perhaps not if using their cell) which is why I put in the beginning of my profile that I'm not looking for younger or couples. I do get a bit aggravated if it is a gold member and they ask questions that are very clearly answered if they took the time to read my profile before emailing me. I was once told by someone responding to one of my previous blogs that perhaps the guy had a - Nothing ventured...nothing gained type of mentality in contacting me...even if he did take the time to read my profile. I usually try to me nice and patient for the most part...but if it has been a day when I've had way too many of the same type of emails....I can get a little exasperated....lol So men....bottom line here is: if you are a gold member, read the woman's profile first. It would be much appreciated!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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seriously, what's with all the entitlement mindset these "kids" are on now a day??? No one is entitled for shit from anyone else let alone someone that you don't even know. You're right in burning the little boy imo. You are actually being kind to him there are so many other things I would have thrown at his way if I was you. I'm glad to have your approval of my sparring with him....lol Trust me...I did consider giving him worse than he got. I'm a really nice woman, but when pushed, I can have a tongue as sharp as a knife that can cut with surgical precision.....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I actually made a post recently about how this isn't just a sex site. Dude needs to get a clue That boy most definitely needed to get a clue...on a few things...but will most likely remain clueless....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Ahhhhhh maybe....but I decided to have a little sparring with him..... it made for a little fun for me. Perhaps he could learn a bit-perhaps not...... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Generally I just ignore those emails. However, every once in a while I am compelled to respond which, if I allow it, becomes very similar to the exchanges you showed here. My thought is that guys who write those emails are under the impression this is mainly a porn site for hooking up (cannot imagine how they get that idea!) and do not realize many of us use it as we do any other dating site, except sex is more out in the open.
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If it carries on like this, the site is going to have to rename itself to ImmatureFriendFinder.
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Generally I just ignore those emails. However, every once in a while I am compelled to respond which, if I allow it, becomes very similar to the exchanges you showed here. My thought is that guys who write those emails are under the impression this is mainly a porn site for hooking up (cannot imagine how they get that idea!) and do not realize many of us use it as we do any other dating site, except sex is more out in the open. I think you are probably right that some men (not all) get the impression this is strictly a sex site, after all the site brags- Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now...and I get that. BUT....it doesn't say ALL people are here for that, nor is iit n their TOU's that you have to be looking for sex or hookups to be a member. That goes over some men's heads apparently. Some don't get it that if you initiate an email with some thought out, respectful thoughts/words...they may get a better response....duh!....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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The Man-Child: Wanna give me a blow job? Your response should have been: Yes , or no. That's all that is required from you. Saying, "Wanna give me a blow job", doesn't make him a man child. You chose to mock him, so continuing a conversation. Typically men come to sex sites looking for mindless , connectionless sex. That's normal. You are experienced, you should know that. However since it was my email...I get to choose how I respond to it! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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If it carries on like this, the site is going to have to rename itself to ImmatureFriendFinder. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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it was my email...I get to choose how I respond to it.... That is entirely true. But to everyone else who isn't trying to brown-nose you , you do appear to be the trouble maker. The Man-Child in question was a pig (in my opinion), but having read some of the comments you post on other blogs....I'm not surprised you would see it differently. Again...I'll respond any way I want to an email sent to me. If me calling out a pig and boy who can't take a rejection like a man makes me a trouble maker (in your words)...Ummmmmm....I think I can live with that!!....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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that just means he cant talk to a lady right... or just doesnt care. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Thanks for making my morning! That was outrageously funny, but I'm sorry you had to go through the experience to provide us with some laughs. I hope your weekend improves from here.
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Thanks for making my morning! That was outrageously funny, but I'm sorry you had to go through the experience to provide us with some laughs. I hope your weekend improves from here. I blocked him, so I won't have to deal with him again..but I'm sure another will come along eventually....lol I guess the lesson to them should be: Be careful..ya mind wind up as a blog post...lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Thanks for your support Joy....I have as well, as I'm sure most women on this site have. Really lets one seperate the boys from the men! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Wow the nerve of him!!
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Wow the nerve of him!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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He's destined for failure and is likely too clueless to figure out why. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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The way that he went from a casual come on to heated anger is a red flag. He is stalker material, and probably is on some kind of medication. These are the ones that "even I" avoid.
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You were very nice about how you respond to him, so many stupid, dumb idiots on this site
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He is just clueless about it all.... But you are right, we all get older, but I hope to retain some of the "child" in me...but in a good way! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Oh my Lovely...you should not even reply to such a person! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Yes, many of the women on this site have been the receipient of similar emails. I shake my head when I get them or read about the other women's stories as well. Hopefully most men understand NOT to do it the way that was detailed in my blog post!.....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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He's destined for failure and is likely too clueless to figure out why. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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The way that he went from a casual come on to heated anger is a red flag. He is stalker material, and probably is on some kind of medication. These are the ones that "even I" avoid. They are gonna get deleted or get no response most times.....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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You were very nice about how you respond to him, so many stupid, dumb idiots on this site Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Be glad your not selling real estate - face to face and an hour gone with those types ... and on your property ...
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Hi tam18974. thanks for sharing this experience. the beauty of free... is that a world of opportunities presents itself to so many more peeps... the ugliness of free... is that a world of ill-prepared people try to take advantage of the situation... I've only blocked four people on this site... that's not too bad in 3 years... If I read something I don't like... I make an assessment and move on... so many heavenly creatures to meet... some are real... some are not... I've met two face-to-face... and... I enjoyed both... the drama with other potential firsts has also happened... but, in my easy going way... I can move to the next flower, so to speak... I will leave you with this... thanks for reading me... I discovered LP this year... "I've done so many things wrong..." LP - "Good With You" Mostly I'm bad, mostly I make The people that care about me, love me, sad And I don't know why Mostly I lie and maybe it's because I don't want anyone to know who I am Oh, but you, with your angel face You take me to a place, I've never been Oh, but you, with your innocence You break through my defense I'm only good with you I'm only good with you I've done so many things wrong I've sung a thousand songs What did you see in me? It's still a mystery Thought that I was through You made me someone new And I'm only good with I'm only good with you Mostly I'm a mess, never say no Get myself in trouble telling everybody yes I don't know why Oh but you, when I feel your love Your better than any drug I ever had Oh, but you, you make me see in light In the darkest night I'm only good with you I'm only good with you I've done so many things wrong I've sung a thousand songs What did you see in me? It's still a mystery Thought that I was through You made me someone new And I'm only good with you I'm only good with you... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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You are correct...it happens a lot, you just have to read the blogs to see that! Again correct that some men just won't or don't learn. If he thinks with his raging boner...he's thinking with the wrong head. Your approach sounds like a much smarter choice. I'm glad I could provide a little levity in your day.....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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dealing with an adult- are you kidding ? I have talked to more fakes and flakes on here and craigslist- lolollol they wanna talk the talk but when it comes down to the nut cuttin they have so many excuses- or are no where to be found- It's a shame you've had the experience of talking to so many fakes and flakes on here and other places. I haven't really had too many bad times talking to people here. But it is evident that there are fakes and flakes here and elsewhere.. Seems a problem lies with some couples profiles, so I hear. Men pretending to be part of a couple- women pretending as well. So stupid, because sooner or later the truth comes out....or the lies continue. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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