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Embracing Yourself And Your Sexual Needs, Just Saying
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Embracing Yourself And Your Sexual Needs, Just Saying Embracing Yourself And Your Sexual Needs, Just Saying So on this site there's a lot of people searching for different things. Not all of it is about sex and not all of it is cut and dried. Big events like getting older, getting divorced, getting married, getting a new partner, losing a partner, dealing with death and dealing with health issues. A lot of these things force us to look at ourselves and see what went wrong or if we are happy and fulfilled or not. Suddenly, there's a lot more time alone for us to think about it. Sometimes embracing a new lover or a new sexual lifestyle or a different type of sex with a current lover is set in front of us to be explored. Maybe we find that things are a little different or a whole change and anything in between. It's like we are in our formative years discovering ourselves and our true desires. Maybe it's something little, like adding a few toys and positions or maybe you discover that you really want to be with someone you normally would not have previously chosen to have sex with. Whatever it is, you should take the time to really find out what it is that you want, that you like, that you are willing to try. There are stories, there are groups, there are Chatrooms and other tools to help yourself find the direction. Most people who have had the desires for many years and are in practice of it can spot the fakes. The ones who claim to be, but haven't even immersed themselves yet. Don't be that fake. If you want to know read, ask. If you want to try, ask and discuss. Whereas you may be belittled and laughed at for pretending to know something, new people who are genuine are usually welcome. Some groups and fetishists are very forthcoming with guiding and enlightening others in what goes on. How things progress. So try to be friendly and approachable when venturing in discovery. Don't be discouraged when some veterans of the information you want are not as open because of their past experiences. Just keep going forward. Whatever it is you are, you want to try don't be afraid. Embrace it. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about your desires (with the exceptions of and obvious unwanted trauma) Everyone has something. It's not a big deal. Just be who you are. Find those who have similar or same interests as you. Do you the best way you can. At the same time, don't be ignorant. If you think you are or want to be or have specific desires. Educate yourself. Really find out what it is and if you fit that slot. If you were to find tofu hidden in your steak or crystals being sold off to you as diamonds, you would be pissed off. You don't want to buy a fake for the real price. You want to buy what you pay for. So read, watch, ask, listen. Know what it is. Being educated doesn't mean you have to get all straight laced and only one way. It doesn't mean you have all of everything on the subject. You don't need to be an expert. The important thing is love yourself and be happy with yourself and your choices. Embrace yourself. Be kind. Be polite. Be yourself, just saying.  Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything |
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SakuraMar39s Dictionary For The Cool amp Perverted Just in case Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything
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very well said, I enjoy your musings btw. Politeness and authenticity always get you far, and if someone does not appreciate it that, then you do not want it. I struggle with pretending because I am not super smart and get caught very easily so I do not even try   !I try my best sexy lover I can
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very well said, I enjoy your musings btw. Politeness and authenticity always get you far, and if someone does not appreciate it that, then you do not want it. I struggle with pretending because I am not super smart and get caught very easily so I do not even try
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