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Rochblue 46F

7/9/2021 1:05 pm

It's a rant that's all too familiar on this site, as I can relate to much of what you're describing. Here's my theory on it all...

Regarding the gay/bi men who are contacting the straight men: Ok, so this stuff always existed on here in smaller numbers, but over the years I think it has exploded in volume. I think it all boils down to how social behavior has deteriorated over the years. If you have the honor to talk to any real women on this site who has been here for a reasonable amount of time, we pretty much all have the same message to share. We will all tell you that the men and the behavior of them is horrible with how they interact is horrible!!!! Between the spelling/grammar issues, the rude comments, the vulgar comments, the level of ignorance, the mockery, the table-turning/blaming, the retaliation, the childishness and so forth is pretty much everything that has taken a toll on the millions of real women who USED to be on this site and then left for good because of it. That created the gay/bi thing to increase (read on...). That brings me up to the next topic.

Site fakes: As I have said, since behavioral issues turned-off and pushed millions of women off the site over the years, the site still had to remain a profitable business. The only way the site could manage to achieve that was to replace all of the real women (who had left the site) by fake female profiles to create the illusion that the REAL female inventory around here is still the same (which is the farthest thing from the truth!). The unrealistic sayings and pics on these fake profiles are the bait to lure the men in to pay for services which are completely fabricated. In addition, everything became monetized, for that matter with a system of points (which only further divides people). Anyway, with a severe lack of real women, the male population has remained the same. That creates enormous competition (which leads to frustration, discouragement, anger, tempers, rudeness) when 100% of the men here are all seeking the same exact thing and there is likely 1% of real women here (which most aren't even in the game to meet men to begin with). It becomes a downward spiral as things progressively have gotten worse and worse. Many men become desperate, knowing they have zero odds of finding real women, so they resort to the next best thing....other men to hound, regardless to the sexual orientation of the male he's inquiring to. This is the man who feels that he has nothing to lose, so why not ask, even if he knows in advance he has zero chance.

What this site really is, is a congregation of the rejects of society (I'm generalizing). There's a reason they resort here, because they have issues, cannot meet women in real life in public or are in some way weird, creepy, gross, ugly, nasty, lack personality or communication skills, ignorant, unintelligent, awkward, introverted or otherwise. Most men here are losers and users. Almost all men just want to get laid, nothing more. That's not generally realistic to real-life women, who generally want more meaning and care out of the person she intends to be with.

So it's ok to rant. We all do and for good reason. Between the corrupt site as a illusionary monetary generating machine, poor social behavior and all of the other nonsense in between to deal with on a site that you pay out the ass to have impossible odds of success, you have every reason to vent. Most of us feel that same pain in some way or another.


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