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SophieNew98 21F
337 posts
1/3/2020 2:03 pm
How many is too many?


So a friend made a casual passing remark that I was a slut. It was not meant to be a hurtful comment but it did get me thinking. I’m still young and enjoy the fun and attention of being with different guys but how many do you think?

LimerickJohn 65M
1042 posts
1/3/2020 2:10 pm

I love it.

There is no such thing.

There is a woman who has worked hard at discovering her sexual appetite and now appreciates it. I wish there were lots more out there. You are welcome in my company anytime. ☘


dspskall 18M  
20 posts
1/3/2020 2:15 pm

Thats a number only you can choose, you do you other people cannot make proper informed discisions about such a personal aspect of your life


undercover_bi469 55M
520 posts
1/3/2020 2:20 pm

Get as much as you can while you can. You are only young once. All my regrets in life are things I haven't done when I could have, nothing that I did.


6inchjoey 49M  
790 posts
1/3/2020 2:27 pm

I love sluts they are so fun and open minded to be with and I dated a few that had over 100 cocks in them and it didn't bother me and just long as she plays it safe and don't get anything then its all good


69ereatwetpussy 57M
2909 posts
1/3/2020 2:28 pm

As many you want it your life.


ColtonKC 33M  

1/3/2020 2:34 pm

Just get checked often!


samuel31919 28M
12 posts
1/3/2020 2:35 pm

There's no limit in my opinion.


SophieNew98 21F
55 posts
1/3/2020 2:35 pm

    Quoting 6inchjoey:
    I love sluts they are so fun and open minded to be with and I dated a few that had over 100 cocks in them and it didn't bother me and just long as she plays it safe and don't get anything then its all good
So k owing the number of guys I’ve been with wouldn’t be a turn off?


kipawa21 63M
16 posts
1/3/2020 2:37 pm

all's well that ends well


wewillfuck2day 39M/31F
57 posts
1/3/2020 2:54 pm

at 1 time or like total number of people you have fucked


LimerickJohn 65M
1042 posts
1/3/2020 2:55 pm

    Quoting kipawa21:
    all's well that ends well
Sophie knowing the number wouldn't bother me. ☘


SophieNew98 21F
55 posts
1/3/2020 2:55 pm

    Quoting 6inchjoey:
    I love sluts they are so fun and open minded to be with and I dated a few that had over 100 cocks in them and it didn't bother me and just long as she plays it safe and don't get anything then its all good
So k owing the number of guys I’ve been with wouldn’t be a turn off?group_id=764609


1hardcock00 56M
24 posts
1/3/2020 2:55 pm

More pussy the better


mayzz 64M
445 posts
1/3/2020 3:00 pm

That number is for you to know and to share if you choose to.... Most men will not care about how many men you were with prior. Enjoy yourself and play safe.... and you will be happy. A Slut is not a negative thing. All it means is that you enjoy having sex .


SophieNew98 21F
55 posts
1/3/2020 3:00 pm

    Quoting wewillfuck2day:
    at 1 time or like total number of people you have fucked
I’m not sure what you’re asking


SophieNew98 21F
55 posts
1/3/2020 3:05 pm

    Quoting mayzz:
    That number is for you to know and to share if you choose to.... Most men will not care about how many men you were with prior. Enjoy yourself and play safe.... and you will be happy. A Slut is not a negative thing. All it means is that you enjoy having sex .
Thanks I am having fun and happy so far 😊


SarahLem80 39F
51 posts
1/3/2020 3:10 pm

I wish I’d done what I’m doing now when I was younger! Enjoy!


scorp6926 58M
42 posts
1/3/2020 3:10 pm

depends on some things. how it affects you and the people you give a shit about. Is it hurting you or your relationships. Will it affect your future. Myself, I am kind of wondering why your asking, if you were cool with "it" then...
If you were a guy would you be asking?
health wise, wouldn't it be better, safer to have a couple regular dudes to fuck?,
Anyway....good luck and have fun, lifes tooo fucking short!


AlexCFL 47M
7 posts
1/3/2020 3:11 pm

Happy friday


Temporary31 59T
51 posts
1/3/2020 3:11 pm

Being someone with many more years, heck a lifetime in comparison. I would say a single attractive person can answer that question only retrospectively. Is it like filling a container to full? Is it a search for a missing piece? One cannot find CENTER until one reaches out in every direction. Perhaps you find the "just right person" for today's answer, but that could evolve in time into a different question.
And after you have been with every possible type of man,,, would it get boring and a different need emerge? TWo men, 10, a woman?
You will know when it happens,,, in the mean time enjoy!


SingleItalianGy2 48M
852 posts
1/3/2020 3:16 pm

Lol.... If a guy brags about how many ladies he has fucked he is considered to be either a liar or stud. If woman brags about how many men she's fucked she is considered to be either or SLUT or a PROSTITUTE. For those of us who love fucking we will never win and almost certainly branded or stigmatized in some type of negative light. Personally I say " Fuck You" to those who want to try and label me "Male Slut, Player, Perve, etc" fact of the matter is I am all those things and many many more. For the longest time I thought I was a "Sex Addict" when in reality the simplest way of describing me is..."Pleasure Addict"

**** Next time someone makes a casual remark grab there hand and pull them close to you and whisper in there ear. I've fotgotten about more Pussy/Women then most men will ever have ( then step back and observe the reaction. Respond accordingly to said reaction.


6inchjoey 49M  
790 posts
1/3/2020 3:34 pm

    Quoting SophieNew98:
    So k owing the number of guys I’ve been with wouldn’t be a turn off?
No even if I was dating you I still let you fuck other men long as I'm there holding you while you cum and some guys don't like it but I don't mind it at all


flirtyv34d 45F
20 posts
1/3/2020 3:36 pm

keep sucking and fucking hun lifes too short


PAWAPh 43M
10533 posts
1/3/2020 3:38 pm

Hey, Sophie.

*Have A Slutful Weekend*

Jack


wewillfuck2day 39M/31F
57 posts
1/3/2020 4:00 pm

I meant are you talking how many guys you fucked at 1 time or like how many guys you have fucked in your life


tresennui 65F  
2414 posts
1/3/2020 4:04 pm

You are still young, but after many years of being single...As I blogged some years ago...
Triple Digits

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


licknsuck1234 62M
36 posts
1/3/2020 4:40 pm

Tell me about each and every cock you have had fuck you, all while I lick and suck your cum filled pussy......


MaturemaleOnt 64M
6 posts
1/3/2020 4:49 pm

Some women think being called a slut is a compliment. I don't care how many she has fucked. I prefer women with experience as I have an imagination. lol>>!


AmorDivino202 56M
45 posts
1/3/2020 4:51 pm

Buenisssimooooo


ProfessorNaught 107M
1013 posts
1/3/2020 5:14 pm

    Quoting SophieNew98:
    So k owing the number of guys I’ve been with wouldn’t be a turn off?
Yes, it will be to the right guy.
But what's the right type of guy? ... for you.

only you can answer but you should see my other comments.


ProfessorNaught 107M
1013 posts
1/3/2020 5:51 pm

This is a question that should never be asked or answered - by and between partners.

Up until now, you've accomplished nothing but the skills to learn (on your own). Not even your brain will be fully developed for another five or six years.

You have nothing, accomplished no great intellectual achievements and basically have nothing to lean on or claim of expertise. (well for most at 21)

A hard truth but something to recognize as you tell yourself, "I can have/do anything I want"
and then making the effort to reach those goals.

My point is, it will not always be that way. You'll grow, mature, educate and reeducate while discovering new interest and deeper desires/passions (not sexual) for life, career, family and other fun stuff.

However, with nothing gained and to loose your aversion to risk (and consideration thereof) really doesn't exist. Yet sex with endless numbers of partners is the biggest risk you take as this can lead to death or worst living with an std and not capable of having the sex you enjoy now. And random partners are never randomly honest or even knowledgeable when they themselves engage with endless numbers of random partners.

Back to "it will not always be that way". The only thing you need to think about is who do "You Want to Be?" in ten years. The mature Sophie is who I'm talking about. How will endless partners play out in your head in five, ten and twenty years and how will that affect your relationship when you want to settle into the life you're creating now?

Otherwise, ignore all those that cheer for the slut. They simply envision bedding you with nothing more than burn and churn techniques that get them off ( damn the woman's needs ).

And, you and your friend may be confusing the term slut with a more articulate explanation of what you enjoy. I'm willing to bet you're not too sure about what that really is. But don't latch onto the term slut because everyone who likes/engages in sex could be equally labeled the same way - especially men and then most men here.


Sexczy69 64M
2477 posts
1/3/2020 6:34 pm

That is something you can only answer young lady..... we have not been together so I know you still have not been with enough yet.....


Cum_Happy 106M

1/3/2020 8:01 pm

Enough is enough!

I guess the real question is, how much is enough and how much is too much for you?

Some of us never seem to have enough, no matter how much we get. And some, never seem to get enough, even when we have had too much.

When our lifestyle negatively affects our home, our family, our health and well being, then it is too much. And by then, sadly, it is usually too late.

There are more sexually transmitted diseases today than there are partners, and many of them are incurable.

If you've had a good time, and you still have your health and your sanity, maybe you should consider settling down some.
There is nothing wrong with having been a slut, but there is nothing worse than a has been old slut.

Do what most professional fighters, race car drivers, football players don't usually seem to have the good sense to do. Get out while you are young, while you are ahead.

jmo

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SophieNew98 21F
55 posts
1/5/2020 3:41 am

    Quoting 6inchjoey:
    No even if I was dating you I still let you fuck other men long as I'm there holding you while you cum and some guys don't like it but I don't mind it at all
I need more guys like you in my life 😉


SophieNew98 21F
55 posts
1/5/2020 3:41 am

    Quoting flirtyv34d:
    keep sucking and fucking hun lifes too short
I’m having a very good go at it so far 🤪


SophieNew98 21F
55 posts
1/5/2020 3:42 am

    Quoting PAWAPh:
    Hey, Sophie.

    *Have A Slutful Weekend*

    Jack
I have thank you 😊


SophieNew98 21F
55 posts
1/5/2020 3:44 am

    Quoting tresennui:
    You are still young, but after many years of being single...As I blogged some years ago...
    Triple Digits
It is amazing how quickly the numbers add up yes! 😮


SophieNew98 21F
55 posts
1/5/2020 3:56 am

    Quoting wewillfuck2day:
    I meant are you talking how many guys you fucked at 1 time or like how many guys you have fucked in your life
I’m not sure I should answer that publicly!!


aFuckedupfilthyM 34M  
2 posts
1/5/2020 5:12 am

Really wouldn't bother me no matter how many, it fun to experiment and figure out what you like, as long as you're having a good time where is the problem? up for chatting with you if you want to add another one into the mix!


undercover_bi469 55M
520 posts
1/5/2020 9:34 am

I would love to have a GF like you. She could have all the guys she wanted, as long as I am there to lick her clean afterwards.


8_cutinches 33M
35 posts
1/5/2020 7:27 pm

There’s no number, it an opinion and one that means nothing. Just be happy and free.


Urfriendletschat 44M
21 posts
1/6/2020 7:31 am

Get all you can get girl. You can't wear that thing out.if only we could maake gloves out of a vagina!!!!


SxyLatinJazz_4u 46M
102 posts
1/6/2020 10:46 am

Sophie, the older you get the easier it is to read people. You'll find some who don't care about the number, some who do, and some who find it kinky you've had so much experience.

If you want a steady in your life, you'll have to share more how you view sex. One woman I met said, she views sex almost like a hug. She doesn't have to be in love to enjoy their company, just if they were fun.

She said what surprised her was how many men rejected her advances. She eventually understood that many guys don't have the confidence or do not believe it's that easy so they thought she was kidding. So, it's really up to you if you want to share how many. Just treat yourself well, be safe, be healthy.

Let's just say she and I had our fun, until she took a break from the lifestyle to have and raise kids.


Johnyeverha00 32M  
1 post
1/6/2020 2:48 pm

The answer will always be “not enough “


IVFalternative 48M
543 posts
1/6/2020 9:30 pm

If anyone asks me how many women I've been with I tell them the truth: I haven't counted.

Anyone who asks your number is probably not the right guy for you.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


Freeguy611 58M
38 posts
1/7/2020 7:21 pm

Doesn't matter what people think its about what you think about yourself . If your ok with the number of guys or girls you've been worth than fuck what everyone else says
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NeedFun484 38M
14 posts
1/7/2020 7:27 pm

As long as your safe tested regularly it wouldn't bother me. Do whatever makes you happy enjoy life while you can, but be smart about it....Not a turn off at all.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 59M
3727 posts
1/7/2020 8:12 pm

My FWB often refers to herself as a slut, and she definitely thinks it is a bad term. Now her daughters, at least three of the four, all have had & continue to have multiple partners, and her three adult grand-daughters, OMG, they swear they have had any guy in pants within 50 miles ! BUT, she NEVER calls them sluts! She on the other hand, acknowledges a grand total of less than 10 in her entire 60 years of life! I exceeded that as a guy before I was FIFTH-TEEN ! SO yeah, as a guy I must be a slut, or a man-whore, as a few gals of my past have called me! And ya know, I have no regrets on that whatsoever! As to YOU, so you ENJOY sex, and with multiple partners too!! ENJOY !!!
The only thing that could came close to making that bad is if you accepted payment for it, and went around bragging about it! And even that is subject to opinion !


Cameda11 25M
2 posts
1/7/2020 8:17 pm

thats just a number, nobody can judge you for that.


poohbare69 44M
15 posts
1/7/2020 9:18 pm

never to many honey!!!!!!!!!!! xoooxxxooo...\8


purpleman2986 45M
126 posts
1/7/2020 10:04 pm

Wow. You are a very sexy hot and beautiful slut! Which makes you even more desirable! Because you know that you like fucking a lot and want more of it... that’s very hot!


badboy3819652 54M
135 posts
1/8/2020 12:00 am

never too many, keep on fucking


Cayene55 36M
26 posts
1/8/2020 6:45 am

There's no such thing, its the other person's problem and not yours


567looking4fun 39M/43F
2 posts
1/9/2020 10:32 am

Only count the ones that made an impact.


beemerguy95 73M  
2 posts
1/9/2020 1:10 pm

I won't ask how many you have had sex with and you don't ask me how many either.


plano_eli 35M  
7 posts
1/9/2020 3:00 pm

Nobody says before they die, I wish I had less sex.


Buffsabs84 35M
12 posts
1/9/2020 9:50 pm

"Too many" is stupidity made up by those who get zero.


Hung_horny85 34M
8 posts
1/10/2020 3:37 am

I don't think it's about numbers, for me it's about getting the sexual gratification and enjoying the experience. If you get that from different guys and girls or just one it doesn't matter


43xz 55M  
37 posts
1/10/2020 9:02 am

No limit


HornyOldFucker76 60M
71 posts
1/10/2020 12:33 pm

Fuck as many people as you want and enjoy each and every one. It should only matter to you, and if someone else thinks it's their business and thinks being a slut is a bad thing, that's their problem. Knowing the ever-growing number of your partners wouldn't bother me. If we were married, I'd love to have you as a hotwife.


CDinWJ 43T
8 posts
1/10/2020 7:10 pm

Enjoy and learn from every one of your encounters.


W3shoodhookup 49M
18 posts
1/11/2020 3:18 am

I see nothing wrong at all with having a high amount of sexual partners! I did it when I was young! Lol don't waste it! Use it baby!


MarriedVC 63M
24 posts
1/11/2020 9:40 am

I will give you a number but it will only be given while we are fucking


UncutChris72 47M
22 posts
1/11/2020 4:20 pm

If you are happy with ypur choices. Well then fuck everbody else.


nomdeplume111 39M
36 posts
1/12/2020 9:38 am

Well, I'm not marrying you so you can have as many men as you want, as far as I'm concerned The world needs more sluts to serve men, I say carry on!


Ironycastle789 37M
6 posts
1/12/2020 5:29 pm

you get em girl!


indio1375 53M
170 posts
1/12/2020 5:41 pm

Hey our bodies r ours an to enjoy sex or pleasure with it or from it is only for us to decide how or with whom . We all love to be seen an it ok


rubysaloongirl 36F  
4 posts
1/12/2020 6:41 pm

Never to many. That is not possible. I have been with over 1500 men or women starting at 14 and still going. If that makes me a slut then I'm proud to be one.


whipandspank 49M
4 posts
1/13/2020 1:01 am

Post 4285259 Have as many as you like but don't catch anything doing it.


HornyOldFucker76 60M
71 posts
1/13/2020 12:48 pm

You sound like my kind of woman!


fuegovital 55M
5278 posts
1/13/2020 7:32 pm

People who only want to fuck you will tell you that it doesn't matter how many guys you have been with, because they don't care about you, they just want your body. But there may come a day when you find someone special with whom you would like to share the rest of your life, and perhaps your sexual past is too heavy a burden for that person. Think about it.
Greetings.


Si quieres escribirme, este es mi... Buzn Para que no te dejen sin palabras


Shadow60195 44M
7 posts
1/13/2020 8:49 pm

Only you know whats right for you


Letshavehavfun69 51M
16 posts
1/14/2020 12:26 pm

As long as you enjoy it. The more the nerrier


Fesxcvgbvd 28M
2 posts
1/14/2020 1:41 pm

How many is too many? Hmmm I'll go ahead and set a number that if I were informed of how many you have fucked I think 100 is too many. IF .. you're not in porn but that is just my opinion... Anyways.. fuck and suck away all day every way I'd say don't make em pay to play with you bootay! Okay? Lmfao 😍 you're gorgeous btw


ncjax 56M
11 posts
1/14/2020 2:16 pm

Don't worry about what others think. Enjoy your life now. Someday, you may find the one, but until then, enjoy the many.


bluebean69 51M
135 posts
1/14/2020 2:49 pm

Count me in!!


Gitanicethickone 50M
9 posts
1/14/2020 4:59 pm

Never too many but be safe in sex so you don’t catch something and get some experience in but when you think you find someone worthy of you that makes you happy and feel special then settle down with that special person


Fesxcvgbvd 28M
2 posts
1/14/2020 10:12 pm

fuck until you cant walk


Nakedsex69mmmm69 35M
89 posts
1/15/2020 12:19 am

I'll eat your wet drippy pussy I'll cum /ejackulate deep inside you raw 4/5 times tonite and I'm free all day tomorrow to suc lick worship your pussy/body I'll preform and fufill all nasty quirks kinks. ..
I'm clean ready to make this happen and drink ur pussy as you squirt spit and cum during ejaculation
I want to push my kinky limits will you help me
Ima cum impregnate you

Ima cum impregnate you


GrahamLind 44M
19 posts
1/15/2020 2:29 am

Only you and time can answer that question.


GrahamLind 44M
19 posts
1/15/2020 2:29 am

Only you and time can answer that question. post 4285259]


looking202063 62M
9 posts
1/15/2020 12:44 pm

It's your body and your decision, have some fun , maybe you should get your friend a partner and not be so judgemental


Juststoppingby44 38M/26F
5 posts
1/15/2020 7:38 pm

One of those things it depends on whose answering the question. The next guy you decide to date or next guy you sleep with. If you are not concerned with those answers keep having fun and be yourself.


deku457 28M
11 posts
1/15/2020 10:07 pm

zero


Hawkfan533333 30M
71 posts
1/16/2020 5:18 am

As long as ur having fun, there is no number.


biassme 30M
10 posts
1/17/2020 12:41 am

I guess, as many as it takes until u r over with it. YoLo


DonR401 54M
30 posts
1/17/2020 5:41 am

Its your business and unless somebody is kissing and telling then do as many as you like....life is short


Mjh8787atOutlook 39M
19 posts
1/17/2020 11:31 am

Ya I’d say that’s something you get to decide for yourself. I’ve never had issues with numbers of partners, for me it’s more about if the person was safe about it.


Subby93 27M
21 posts
1/17/2020 1:23 pm

I don’t think their should be a number cap put on this stuff. Just live your life!


AliOrbit 63F
597 posts
1/17/2020 8:26 pm

Enjoy being a slut. You have a high sex drive . You enjoy yourself. Nothing is wrong with that.


DerrickJames1992 27M
34 posts
1/18/2020 4:29 pm

It is that person's issue. If you enjoy what you are doing why change? Fuck however many you want


1Sexygoodguy11 54M  
282 posts
1/18/2020 5:08 pm

If you are being called a slut, it depends on how you react to it and the situation that you are in. You have to put it into context and understand why you were called one. Was it out of spite or anger? Was it in a joking manner? Was it during a hot and steamy sex session? It is ultimately up to you whether or not you embrace being called one or not and how you react to it.

As far as do I want to know how many guys you have slept with? My answer is, No. Ignorance is bliss as long as you are clean and that you have the freedom of having sex whomever you want.

Stay Sexy My Friend.


exploringabsd 41M
13 posts
1/18/2020 11:26 pm

Just be yourself and don't worry about others.

Your number is your number and you can't stick a singular value on it. Society like labels, she is a slut but he is a stud for sleeping with many, it's all crap. Be yourself


Dilf45247 43M
23 posts
1/19/2020 1:34 am

I found the best sex was with woman
i fell for. I didnt do that till age 44.
I realized i want one woman for sex..


Dilf45247 43M
23 posts
1/19/2020 1:35 am

its all good


Justaverageone 34M
4 posts
1/19/2020 11:48 am

As long as your having fun that's all it counts


hornyhusband1969 51M
13 posts
1/19/2020 2:13 pm

No, knowing the number of men you've had sex with wouldn't be a turn off.
Women who like sex are the best


BamatopGuy 28M
3 posts
1/19/2020 7:02 pm

number is no issue, Enjoy life and all its pleasures.


SeekingSinners69 34M
11 posts
1/19/2020 7:43 pm

No such thing , you do what makes you happy and get it for whatever reasons you want it ... you don’t need to explain just accept , letting go of shame is liberating but very hard


BullforWivesMia 35M
9 posts
1/19/2020 9:47 pm

I say have as much fun as you can the world is made for beautiful women to enjoy and take what they can, and just lie to whoever u date


danlanders22 22M
16 posts
1/19/2020 11:28 pm

When you start to see familiar faces every day in town, maybe slow down a bit.


Jhlff 39M
3 posts
1/19/2020 11:58 pm

Just enjoy yourself and be safe about it.


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