Ladies, when do you?  

harbor112 60M
161 posts
11/8/2019 11:00 pm
Ladies, when do you?


When you go on a date. After how many dates do you start think your date might be gay because he hasn't made a pass at you yet?

harbor112 60M
1008 posts
11/8/2019 11:03 pm

Years ago it was 3. Who knowns now days?


sweet0necter 45F  
1458 posts
11/8/2019 11:14 pm

I say if he asked me out. then I would expect at least one kiss at the end of the night but usually we just have sex.


Newcoupleseok 40M/40F
21 posts
11/8/2019 11:16 pm

I can't neccesarily go by number more by the feel or an instinct.


jajo696 64F
1041 posts
11/9/2019 7:15 am

i would say 3, but by date 2, we are touching...kissing....fondling....something. If nothing is happening....something is suspect me thinks ...lol ~~


BiggLala 47F  
27181 posts
11/9/2019 9:05 am

I don't automatically think a man is gay if he hasn't made attempts to have sex with me. I just think he isn't interested...or as interested as he initially claimed...for whatever reason.

At the end of the day does it really matter if his disinterest is due to his sexuality? What difference does it make? 🤔

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gentlelovrjust4u 61M  
75 posts
11/9/2019 9:28 am

Maybe the man is being a perfect gentleman and is just not receiving the right signals or they are so vague that he is not interpreting them in such a way that would lead him to believe that she wants to move forward.


Heathen_G 61M
7023 posts
11/9/2019 10:23 am

    Quoting gentlelovrjust4u:
    Maybe the man is being a perfect gentleman and is just not receiving the right signals or they are so vague that he is not interpreting them in such a way that would lead him to believe that she wants to move forward.
Maybe the man is being a perfect gentleman .... That's just polite talk meaning , the man is gay.

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When you've gone to the trouble to invite a woman out ON A DATE.... and she's agreed to go out with you.... then on the first DATE you make a pass at her.

You invited her on a "DATE", so she should know you are sexually interested.

Determining where she is with you, is YOUR responsibility. So do this on the first "Date".

But if you invited her out to just hangout with you [not a date]...then don't worry about if she thinks you're gay.


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