First contact  

rmlookn4some14 50M/49F  
17 posts
11/6/2019 4:49 am
First contact

How do you like to be contacted?
Flirt first
Hot for being hot listed
Can't get enough of the IM
Email works best for me
Like to find them in the profiles that viewed me
Like to have them post a comment on my pictures

C4yourselff 31M
7 posts
11/14/2019 7:03 am

Hotlist or I'm. But have something to say on I'm, not just "hey". Why are you contacting me? What are you looking for? Set the groundwork on what's the deal exactly if you're making the first step. And if you're a couple, make it clear which person is im'ing.

Autocorrect kept making Im into I'm.

likeuwet99 51M
12 posts
11/14/2019 12:28 am

IM works the best

Ongo1ngfun4us 34M
4 posts
11/11/2019 11:31 am

I'M seems to work best

Pink_Petals 47F
92 posts
11/8/2019 11:09 pm

Much prefer an email. Just shows they've actually taken the time to write something and sent it. I will always reply to an email, even if I'm not interested.

StillBoredinTx 43M
32 posts
11/8/2019 6:00 am

It doesn’t matter to me.

Studforfun31 31M
16 posts
11/8/2019 4:06 am

Chat rooms are helpful too

Yours_4A_knight 54M
1193 posts
11/7/2019 10:17 pm

Basically I never get contacted, so my answer was more a theory than a reality, and recognizing that I can really only get the IM's without paying which is pretty pointless for me.

I hope that the two of you have a better experience with the service than I have had.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

imsubownme 23M
7 posts
11/7/2019 9:49 pm


sphxdiver 69M  
20649 posts
11/7/2019 8:50 pm

Flirt doesn't hurt, but an e-mail does the trick.

8862 posts
11/7/2019 5:40 pm



capecouple1111 57M/57F  
1 post
11/7/2019 4:29 am

Any of the above but what we really like is when it's the female doing the contacting

1seeking1 54F
2618 posts
11/6/2019 1:57 pm

An email that shows my profile was read and shows how we night be compatible. Too many time wasters here.

looking4u69ca 59M  
1752 posts
11/6/2019 10:39 am

Most of the flirts I get are from gorgeous women with one photo in there profile and usually 1000 miles away. I rarely get a friend request from local women. I have to send the request and then we never meet or chat after they accept?
I would prefer a flirt, hotlist or friend request from local women as 1st contact.

boobwhisperer69 56M
5541 posts
11/6/2019 9:28 am

Probably a flirt. It shows they are interested!

Leegs2012 46M
45868 posts
11/6/2019 8:58 am

I go with flirt first. Welcome to Blog Land!

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