"The elephant in the room for many is photo or no photo. Many potential partners say "if the only pic on your profile is a dick pic don't try to contact to me". These normally are the ones who are looking for marriage or exclusivity. I am not interested in marriage, I am already in one. The next set of potential partners will say something like "if you don't have a photo on your profile then don't contact me" who themselves most likely don't have a photo or their face is obscured. Then are is my thought and I am sure I am likely not alone. Just me for a photo and if you are in my area, are not looking to get married I will send you the type photo you request. G-rated or otherwise"