I am a professional, well-educated Dominant. I am discrete, considered attractive, healthy, athletic, and respectful. Very laid back, definitely drama free, but I enjoy the adventure and am very passionate. I've learned that I am a nice hybrid of Daddy Dom, Master, and Predator, as the situation dictates. I'm experienced, but my first LT partner passed from cancer and my second LT partner and sub had to move away. This has left a void in my life that is truly palpable. I'm not "married" to having to Dom, as I flat out enjoy the physical fun that can be had between willing and respectful partners. Trust, respect, obedience is so very sexy, and is what I seek. And the corollary; trust, respect and devotion is what I offer. I enjoy the journey, the learning, the training, the growing. I take my role responsibility most seriously, and am quite intense, but after all, it is fun... I enjoy role-playing, intermingling with others, exploring and challenging. Above all, I put my submissive on a pedestal.

My Ideal Person I really seek out a connection. Not a "hook-up" kind of guy. Not necessarily against that, but really, where this "lifestyle" deepens, is when we can connect on multiple levels. I am not bi, but have no qualms about partnering with a guy to help please and play with a female(s). I'm also kicking it at epicureanwon.

My ideal female partner is attractive, inside and out. She's in shape and/or curvy in the right places [you won't find Ken here, and I'm not seeking Barbie]. She can hold a conversation, is creative, also discrete, clean, respectful and adventurous.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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