Thanks to the per who complained that my profile was offensive, you galvanised me into some activity to modify my profile a small amount. It would seem honesty and forthrightness are offensive here, whilst cocks and asses are the currency du jour I come relatively unencumbered, no ex's or s hanging off me and a few years of analysis have given me a good sense of self. In an ideal world you would be similarly unencumbered and self aware, but that's not always realistic, but I would expect the ink to be dry on the divorce papers, or if separated that the papers would be drafted and preferably filed. Definitely NOT interested in married men under ANY!!!! circumstance. PLEASE NOTE the term "RATHER NOT SAY" will be read as some nasty little secret like a wife/de facto/significant other and will incur my disinterest and disdain [the latter for being a creep making a fool of another woman] I have been criticised for being picky but all I am doing is outling who will or will not interest/appeal to me. If that's what you think well I probably never would have wanted to share even one convestation with you Not interested in suburban blokes etc. Definitely no-one in the Tuggeranong Valley area or Belco, and as for Gunghalin and surrounds, well one only goes out there for funerals, and to Mitchell for sex toys...tho passing thru them to more rural locations is OK. Overeducated bohemienne. Just looking for some discreet amusement when the urge arises. You're more likely to find me in The Phoenix after 11PM or The Front or in Melbourne checking out bands that never tour Canberra due to a lack of culture in the alternative scene and NEVER at any of those damnable clubs with poker machines and big screen televisions with sport telecasts on them...if this is your schtik don't even bother tyre kicking in my direction or my savage tongue will kick back...quite frankly those that have tried to contact me that fit that sterotype so far....well I've barely ever bothered to reply unless there was something quirky...but most can't follow through when asked to confront their boundaries let alone exceed them...adfter all what are boundaries for in these games. After all this it may still come as a surprise that I am a bottom...you just have to be pretty good to top me and if you can't have my respect and/or admiration conferred upon you by virtue of whatever attributes [intellect/aesthetic/sense of duende] then it is unlikely that you could top me...not for rank amateurs...as Herman Hesse said in Steppenwolf..."for madmen only"

My Ideal Person Toothpaste sandwich wierd...polymath...a good sense of aesthetic in kink...need an IQ substantially above that of boiling water...130 is a good starting point...alt.country loving [well a soundtrack is necessary and being caned to opera by old men with bad haircuts and erectile dysfunctions is fuggin boring]...pref long hair,,,NO SHAVEN HEADS [unless on chemo or Buddhist monk]...commonality of sensibilities in music, politics, disinterest in sport etc are essential and absence thereof can be dealbreakers

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Gram Parsons, Lambchop, Vic Chesnutt, Conway Savage,
Rob Snarski, Jason Molina, Smog, Will Oldham

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Dog in the bath

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Manners

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Already done that a couple of times...best not to kiss and
tell...they already know why they turn me on.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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