Hi sexy, Glad to see you have an interest in me and hope to not disappoint you. First impressions are important so here is my chance to make mine!! As with you being discreet is important as why I don't post a picture of me. But here is one that shows just how "thinking out of the box" I like to be!! We either found each other by me surfing your profile or you surfing mine! So we both know why we are here and that can be an awesome thing. Just keep in mind we are basically on a sex site? So "guess what" sex might come up in the conversation?? I like expressing my strong points, but I like to leave the rest to our imagination and future conversations. I can just type what i can do to you physically and leave it at that!! But forgive me if I am wrong but is that what you want to read over and over again?? I think we on same page that not looking to change our situation but looking for someone who can fill that emotional gap, get some attention and that tied to heart pounding sex!! Let's face it, there has to be chemistry between two people to connect in the bedroom. I am not about endless emails and texting but into personal conversation and testing the water to find the right comfort and chemistry mix. The problem with writing a profile is is it takes volumes to say what could be said during five minutes on the phone. Agree? I wrote my first one and after reading it knew I needed to make some good valid points and cover the rest with you personally. I like things upfront and no surprises. I am married and comfortable but like you one part is being either neglected or not fully satisfied. Not an issue with not getting it as much as not getting it enough!!We are creative and hot in the bedroom but my sex drive is in overdrive and hers is content on cruise control. I have always enjoyed variety even through experiences in my first marriage in the swing lifestyle. She has not warmed up to the idea of sharing so instead of sitting around frustrated I am looking for like minded women who has extra energy to burn!! And I mean burn!! I am tall told to be handsome and endowed with very good communication skills. I believe in staying fit mainly with cardio cause I enjoy taking you hard and the better the endurance the better the experience!! I am known to be very open minded and uninhibited with expression about my sexuality or discussing yours. I am known to be a confident and compassionate person who respects ones views and privacy. Everyone's sexuality is different and mine is very vivid and creative. Your sexuality should first be sparked by a sensual foreplay that breaks out that erotic nature that needs to be tapped. To do that you have to be comfortable with me and achieve that through a sexual friendship. What I like:: I approach every situation open minded because I have been with women who are petite and dull in the bedroom or extra padding that bangs me into insanity. So as you look at me or anybody don't judge the book solely by its cover or you may miss out on the one that pops the bubble that releases your hottest orgasm!! But you must be prepared to be open and able to discuss what turns you on and off!! We are not here to find a soul mate, we got that we are here to find someone who can orally excite us and make it our mission to fuck us into insanity. So if you are tuned to me and based on what I have expressed thus far sparks your curiosity to further explore the opportunities that might lie ahead between us, shoot me an email and we can go from there.

My Ideal Person That heading is on target "What kind of friend are you looking for"!! Someone who just wants to open up and otherwise let there hair down. Not having to worry about being judged by what sexual fantasy or experience they want to either repeat or create in there life by there significant other!! Can you tell him "hey I want to orally please another man's cock" or I want to be fucked by another guy while you watch". Maybe you can and if he agreed you would not be here you would be on SLS! but I know from experience that friends with benefits can express those exact thoughts cause the end result will be acting them out!! If you wanted a threesome we would make it happen! Cause there is not a soul mate connection therefore no reason to get jealous! Just please each other! If you are bi or bi curious lets go for it! I am looking for a physical friendship tied to a sensual emotional flare. I just want someone who wants to focus on each others sexually tied to emotional and sexual needs. I am not looking for multiple partners. I would rather find one person who I can build a good flirtatious friendship that is uninhibited and open to try most anything to reach that hardcore climax. Prefer someone married, attached or single just wanting a no strings attached fuck buddy. Enjoying the mystery of being seduced by a tall well endowed and experienced man that is willing to go the extra mile to exceed your limits!! Someone who can be spontaneous, open to role playing either to be taken or can take the lead and ride the wave. If that is you we need to be burning up some batteries and some sheets.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Watching my female partner getting banged by another man.
Also a foursome us and a couple MFMF where women are bi and
we work them to insanity!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Very open minded to explore or discuss intimate ideas

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
nope

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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