I don't chase ideal. I think that it is absent in real world and every woman have her own views. It is most important ability of a man is to make you feel fading of the heart and giddy in his presence. When he can attract all your thoughts and you are ready to give up everything to be with him even for a few minutes. And these are special impressions that give you a motivation to live. I don't need many beautiful words. They tell less than real actions. The warm tender feelings can be recognized by naked eye.