I have been married for twenty three years, and am not looking to change my marital status. However, my wife has lost interest in sex to the point that I'm lucky to get laid about every other month. She doesn't always deny sex, but how can I enjoy it if I know she really isn't interested? I am a pleasant, D&D free, safe man seeking something new.

My Ideal Person I am seeking a safe encounter with someone around my age, or older. I would love to find someone perhaps in the same boat as I find myself, not getting the intimate contact at home, and seeking a release for these needs. I am pretty open minded, and will entertain many suggestions. safety and discretion are a top priority. I love to give and receive oral, something I give my wife (and she cums several times), but something she never does in return. I've never had a BJ to completion from my wife. Sad, isn't it?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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