Gay guy married to a woman. She knows, accepts and allows me to play. My primary relationships are with my wife and family. Looking for one or more secondary relationships with friends - guys I'd want to be friends with even if sex weren't involved (but it will be!). I guess my physical stats will appear here somewhere, but I'll describe myself as fit. I'm considerate, have a good sense of humor, am kind and finding I tolerate fools less and less as I get older - er, wiser.

My Ideal Person Single or married and also out to his wife (!) who is also just looking for one or more friends with benefits. I'm not jealous and don't expect (or want) an exclusive thing. It just doesn't work. Physically I prefer fit, muscular and certain types of beefy builds. Attraction is subjective (and let's face it, in most cases attraction is 99.9% of what we're here for, right?) so I'm not upset if my looks don't float someone's boat; please don't be hurt if your looks don't float mine. And by "boat" I mean "dick" and by "float" I mean "make hard!"

Speaking of dicks - I don't care what size yours is. I'm more of a face/body guy than a dick guy - as long as you have one, of course.

I am ONLY interested in other guys. I do not play with or in the presence of females.

I like hairy or smooth more than inbetween, not a fan of skinny or really tall (do love those shorties!). Attracted to all races. Not a fan of feminine guys - masculine to macho floats my, well, you know. I play safe only. Not boring, but safe. There are a few things I won't do - but it's a pretty short list!